Archive for self help

The Disobedience of Right Path

Posted in writing-blogging with tags , , , , , , , , on 07/25/2017 by Fastjames007

Tapping of the Source 

Posted in writing-blogging with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , on 12/30/2016 by Fastjames007

Here’s the thing that can and will work for the most including myself. There is knowledge where to tap that unlimitedness of infinite potential. Notice the ten in potential when it’s simply perfect. Knowing that perfection is in our being. We ask for strength to endure, strive, conquer, conflict and resolve. It all starts with you including myself. At first everything seems like a failure in every moment and amount to nothing with self loathing to depression. We don’t know how or even to understand we are the black sheeps in the society full of the proud and haughty spirits that adopt the traits of not caring of what happens to people of persons in suffering. Then they go on assuming for the best with selfish desires and vain luxuries of comfort! We sit and wade in self pity without confidence and don’t know the brighter side of the fence or the light of the tunnel you may say that is seemingly too long to reach. You see the homeless and the unfortunate by saying that’s what they deserve without offering assistance. Yet the burden seem overwhelming to be left alone. The darkness is undeniably unquenchable with its strongholds that wrap its chains in the chords of spirit. The fun, exciting part which is challenging is you, we and I can overcome, tapping the source of enegry within ourselves to make the walls of strongholds in spirit crumble. Then yet it will fear and wonder the brightness of its glory. How, you may say? The positive affirmations are to be used in the mind and then infect the goodness on the dark like syringe as it showily move itself away and knowing you, we and I are ready and equipped to embrace the glory, repetitive bells of freedom. The source sprays like water hose, shower like waterfalls and shine like sunrays ever so available and around about as we stand with the dark strongholds gripping ever so tightly. It dissolves when we repent, starting from the scratch in mind and applying positive affirmations like open sesame. 

Love can not die a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings. -Anaïs Nin

Say we don’t know! That is the problem. Love is there, the source which seem unattainable to reach and that is why we believe so hardly that we can tap the source. The more we can’t, the unbelievable it becomes. Impatience makes it well forgotten and it is just a star above our heads. It doesn’t happen overnight when you, we and I speak positive affirmations to existence, practically and gradually! 

Attitude of Passive Aggression 

Posted in writing-blogging with tags , , , , , , , , , , on 12/20/2016 by Fastjames007

Resorting to passiveness aggressive behaviors can be problematic to a quite of few of introverts especially when you’re living in a rural town and happens to get a smart tv and smart phone to click on whatever you may finding interesting in this cold weather. Christmas is approaching. I come to this age of setting down, appealing to the wonders of technological world where to engage in and innovate. Don’t you click on with your smart tv that say 4K or 8k just to look at timelapsed landcapes or eager to hear something insteresting about conspiracy theories that Christmas is connected? Does Nimrod and unscrambling Santa come to your mind? That’s the beauty of knowledge when you feel comfortable and confident with yourself when nothing will hurt and avoid conflict. That’s peaceful to just share and be aware of all. In this time of the year Happy Holidays are all about, approaching to New Years of new beginnings and changing difficult habits and behaviors. Our bodies of inquiring minds are getting warmer and yearning for joy, warmth and peace. Looking at beloved families in pretense and believing in lies given to children for parental purposes if they misbehave. Oh you been naughty otherwise you won’t get squat for Christmas! I’m a grown man under the mistletoe in the lies taken for granted every Christmas that don’t concern me but in the ultimate, simplest form of happiness. Some take passive aggressive in a bad light when it defines missing out of its glory days when should be all the way through aggressive in everyday matters.

Everyone is different of different background and abilities, handicapped in some certain areas which is no excuse but to be born with that cannot change!

Some are acquired decievely a form of happiness through materialism when it should be a person instead of a thing which is the obvious reason. Resorting to passive aggressive behavior after failed repetitive daily tasks and goals of acquiring what’s right is good for you because you know what you want and can get what you what when the time is ripe. All that I’m telling you is the display of positive attitude when I do what I want and when I want even when the thought of time doesn’t wait and the biological clock is ticking. These thoughts bring depression and doubts to imprision the mind when you have all the attitude to cope with complexities of life that make us struggle and hard to find the precious treasure to hold forever and ever. And that is a true accomplishment when you have and don’t have anyway! Therefore you have the gift of attitude to muscled up the arms of the mind to pull through! Fuel the rage of passive aggression and rip the cage out of its sockets in mind!

Turn Mistakes On

Posted in writing-blogging with tags , , , , , on 11/19/2016 by Fastjames007

Mistakes are to be made. There I said it! It could be rewarding experience as you just do it. I, myself, have the flaw of being perfectionist in everyday matters whether it be attempting to join a competitive sport trial or working in various project with solutions. It could be anything. It’s easy to be slothful and second guess on your ablitiy to do something. It have to be something that links to your passion but the fire burns to keep you going for something new as the others behind or after you can make it better. Don’t be selfish when everything happens for a reason. When something happens and you’re afraid to tell or even be ashamed, understand that it’s part of life, experiencing these emotions when it’s a choice to face them and make it pleasuring experience afterwards. How about gaining mental pleasure when you’re actually attempting something and able to tell to your peers, children and grandkids the story of your life with special endings and humble beginnings? Or you could spend your life with nothing but mistakes untold as fire engulfs you? Mistakes are what define most of us through learning experience when you can aquire just a valuable knowledge within yourself and just for yourself for the sanity of mind. You could smile and be grateful of the experience as you are prepared to tell it. There are endless mistakes and errors to be made, and you notice how we have smartphones in hand, smart television from boxed frames and lighted, touchscreen smartwatches with application design from mechanical watches. It was made through mistakes! Even the best of both worlds yet have pros and flaws! Have you noticed ignorance and the presidency of Barack Obama affect the social and economic dynamics? Mistakes were made through regulation of policies from Bush administration and understanding of character that’s desirable enough for the next candidate to fulfill the role every four years. How about we have elected Donald Trump? We don’t know for sure from bigotry to slurs of past slavery that is indeed a changing experience.

Let’s say it’s for the greater good. We must’ve to think and feel this way as our moral code through mistakes.

Somehow we have placed ourselves in a situation that seem like the biggest mistake in our lives or in career decisions. Then it seems right. However, we can change it for the better shamelessly and boldly talk about our mistakes to squeeze the ooze of solutions out of the most chaotic experience and paste upon from the enlightenment of our passions that is only our right

Keep It Pushing 

Posted in writing-blogging with tags , , , , , , on 10/30/2016 by Fastjames007


Persistence my friends! You have to keep going when all is hopeless. Change your thoughts to optimistic. There’s no time to be pessimistic because it will slow you down, being the unbeliever. If you believe, anything is possible but don’t give up! There would be times it’s mentally challenging to cause you almost raising the white flag. Come on now you’re a lot more stronger than you think and stronger than what anybody else think. You’re close to the goldmine with diamonds but if you turn back now, you’re missing the inch near to it. Most lost the opportunities, getting most things to them overwhelmed but don’t let that be you as you put your mind beyond the goal then what you’re reaching for is already has been acquired and set as you progress while you never thought you had it. Don’t put too much thought into a goal as your mind goes blank while you putting the effort!

The Magical of Profanity 

Posted in writing-blogging with tags , , , , , , , on 10/30/2016 by Fastjames007


Don’t we all like to swear a lot to ourselves and in front of anyone? I was raised in the household where I could often hear swear words that would infect my life. I was taught that it was disrespectful which leads me to tell you it’s something about the swear words we use. They are all over the place in the world used by young and old as we know. Then get scolded for using them to repress ourselves. This results to the rise of betas. Whoever invented swear words have made it sound naturally to express confidence and the fighting spirit toward any circumstances. It has an attraction and chemistry feel to it. Steve Jobs, a once known billionaire for inventing apple products and computers that we use to today, is known for using swear words often in the workplace to get through the day.

I’m saying the swear words we use may have a magical effect and are the keywords to the door of success.

I’m not saying you should use them all the time and everyday. It should be used only when, where and how to express that fighting spirit to get your way through. I, myself, often use swear words mentally under breath to get through the day and actually help to relieve stress whether it be a hobby of sport or working something important with a sense of urgency. It’s something that will never go away in the likes of any word that is degrading with history behind it. Do you want places to be nice and less challenging without any excitement? Well we can embrace swear words less as possible to deal with sensitivity of others. It may work to help one another to cure oneself and be a better, alpha person just to move forward, mature and adapt that all swear words are just words even if it to get us! Be cool now! It’s only when, where and how to use it for certain situations away from a place of respect!

Death of Negativity pt 2

Posted in writing-blogging with tags , , , , , , , , on 10/04/2016 by Fastjames007


The mind is just like the computer plugged to the matrix. Did you know that the movie, the Matrix, was writtten by a black woman? Just to put out there because the most exciting things come from a black woman that is in secret which we may all not know since they are part the co creation of us, nothing more or nothing less. All things start with the mind, and you must re-evaluate, re-consider, re-pent, and re-heal. If you don’t know how to use it, you simply malfunction just like a computer with all kinds of viruses and systems crashes. The creator from the above is a finished user, experimenter and a teacher quiet during the test beholding his wonderius works that take time and at least forever for his plans to unfold. Can’t be simply all at once. Taking one day at a time adding negativity and substracting out of the universal equation. It starts with the mind as you are self aware than a computer isn’t. Then later the computer will be artificially self aware. You can say God is ahead most of us in through of us all. Each one of us is unquestionably unique and cannot be just simply figured out. Let’s say it’s already there in concrete term of a tree. You put that in your mind by seeding something great as you go about your way.


All the time you speak to yourself and towards others determine your reality, you could be either a broken tree or a boundless tree.

A broken tree can be a personal ax to grind.

It either can be when you can’t water yourself in the meaning of self care by showering good thoughts about self and others. Don’t be that ignorant, broken tree when it has roots and seeds hidden in your own plains of reality.